Dating

Relationships

Can girls chase guys?

Being in my 20s, dating is a pretty hot topic. Besides questions like: Is there “the one“? Can guys and girls be just friends? Another popular matter of discussion is: Can girls chase...

Relationships

Happy Valentine’s Day: A letter from a dad to a son

Dear son, February 14’s here again. Since you’re now of age to date, I thought it’s high time I shared my Valentine experiences with you in the hope it’ll help you navigate...

Relationships

Letting go of my relationship for good

“Do you trust me to provide for all your needs?” I heard God ask. Through tears, I was staring at a piece of paper with the words “REQUEST FOR CANCELLATION OF APPLICATION BEFORE BOOKING...

Dating

“God has a different checklist”: Dr Tam Wai Jia on waiting for Mr Right

Many singles wrestle with the question of who is Mr (or Ms) Right. “But the better question is: Who is God’s choice for us?” asked 33-year-old medical doctor Tam Wai Jia. Better known...

How-tos & Handles

Conversations in the Church on same-sex attraction: How can we do better?

In our article “How do we share our views on same-sex attraction in a loving way?”, we shared Dr Christopher Yuan’s advice on how we can share the gospel with non-believers who identify as gay....

How-tos & Handles

How do we share our views on same-sex attraction in a loving way?

Our intentions may be good, but they may not always come out in the best way. Sharing what it’s like to receive well-meaning advice from Christians, Dr Christopher Yuan recommends better ways to...

Dating

Is there the right one?

Growing up, I have hurt other people and I’ve also been hurt by others as well. Along the way I’ve declared so many people to have been “The One” for me… but is there really...

Dating

How can I be single and satisfied?

“How come you’re still single?” “What’s wrong with you?” “So when is your turn?” “Don’t be so choosy! Just go for it.” “No boyfriend ah? Want me to introduce?” All these...

Discipleship

How do I help my cell group members when it comes to sexual purity?

“Lord, I’m so sorry… I messed up again. Help me stop.” This would be my almost nightly prayer for a number of years since the first time I began exploring my own sexuality out of curiosity. I...