Relationships

How to talk to girls in church

We met in the children’s ministry. After serving for about a year and helping out in a camp together, we started texting. Things were going great and I was enjoying the casual, mildly flirty...

Relationships

My heart broke when my mentees left church

Both my mentees left the church within the same month: November 2018. I had been mentoring them for close to a year, respectively. They were also the first and only two mentees that I ever had....

Family

I thought I would never forgive

When I got married and moved in with my husband’s family, there were many conflicts. I was immature and hot-tempered, and exchanged many harsh words with my in-laws. I continued to anger my in-laws...

Relationships

You don’t have to wear a mask in life

In Chinese culture, we are often caught up with the need to “save face”. That’s an idea that comes from the Mandarin phrase mianzi (面子), which refers to one’s pride and...

Relationships

Making peace with my Tiger Mum

I never thought I’d be able to celebrate Mother’s Day with my mother because our relationship was estranged for a good 16 years. Little did I know that this same brokenness was what God would use...

Family

Struggling stay-home mums, take heart: There is a purpose for this season

Down on all fours, I surveyed the post-dinner damage wearily.  What. a. mess.  The sight of puree spatters and mangled alphabet macaroni bits left on the floor by my infant son triggered something...

Relationships

To the young mum whose life has zero chill, this is for you

If you’re inwardly shouting “that’s me!”, we’re going to see in a bit how the chill mum is not a myth, but can become your very present reality with the Lord. Maybe you’re thinking:...

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A tribute to Mum, who gave up everything for us

It dawned upon me the other day that I know very little about my mum’s life before she had me. All I know is that when she had me, she was 29. She was in the midst of settling down in a new...

Relationships

I’ve stopped avoiding negative emotions

I’ve always disliked being emotional. Perhaps it started when I watched my parents fight as a child. I never understood how a simple discussion over loading the dishwasher or cooking dinner could...