Dating

Singlehood

Another year without a Valentine

Ah, Valentine’s Day. The season of overpriced flowers, chocolate boxes from FairPrice, and Instagram stories of couples taking selfies at Gardens by the Bay or Marina Barrage. As I walked past a...

Dating

Relationships: A convo on being unequally yoked, online dating and finding “The One”

Happy Valentine’s Day! Continuing on from their conversation on relationship red flags last week, CLIFF and WAI JIA touch on unequally yoked relationships, online dating and share some thoughts...

Dating

Red flags in relationships

Ahead of Valentine’s Day, one of our favourite couples – CLIFF and WAI JIA – shares some relationship red flags to keep an eye out for (and how!) as well as a short reflection on who should...

Marriage

9 lessons on love and marriage from the Song of Solomon

“Do not stir up or awaken love until it pleases.” (Song of Solomon 2:7) I was in the sanctuary, a fly on the wall, listening to this fervent appeal of my pastor to excited teenagers during a...

Dating

The 5 Love Languages: How to express your affection intentionally and effectively

Learning to love can be frustrating. That’s something my partner and I have found out through the disagreements we have had. Initially, my perception of a loving relationship was mistakenly...

Dating

Does God still speak to us through dreams?

We’ve all had dreams we’ve wondered about. Some dreams are quite clear in their meaning. For instance, dreaming about failing your examinations is likely an extension of the fear and...

Dating

Spiritual compatibility: What does it mean to be equally yoked?

The importance of spiritual compatibility cannot be understated in a relationship.  To define it simply, spiritual compatibility is when a guy and a girl in a relationship share similar levels of...

Relationships

Is loneliness addictive?

In a survey conducted by the Institute of Policy Studies (IPS) earlier this year, more than half of young people aged 21 to 34 said they sometimes feel anxious about talking to people in person and...

Marriage

Before you apply for a BTO, here are some things to keep in mind

I first met Deborah in February 2022 after joining her cell group. Four months later, I took her out to dinner, gifted her flowers and a kintsugi plate (another whole story behind that one), and...