Dating

Singlehood

What does it mean to guard your heart?

I broach this topic with convictions, but also with fear. As I write this, I am brought back to a conversation I had just yesterday with my closest friends. It was a conversation that made me realise...

Marriage

The unlikely story of how I found my wife

About 10 years ago, I had an encounter with God. That encounter gave me a conviction that He had called me to missions, and that I should spend the next 10 years of my life preparing for the mission...

Singlehood

The girl (still) without the husband: A Valentine’s Day story

It took three events to make this story happen: new heartbreak, old heartbreak, and a meme. All within the span of a month. I don’t need to over-explain the first two, the former being a fresh...

Dating

Christian singles, meet the folks making your mingling easier

Dating can be difficult. As we grow older, it only becomes harder to meet other God-fearing believers who aren’t already attached. This lack of existing avenues for Christian singles to connect...

Dating

How can I be a godly woman during courtship?

Since my husband Cliff’s article addressing how to be a godly man in courtship started making its rounds on social media, I also began receiving dozens of questions over Instagram from young women...

Dating

How do I know if I’m ready for a relationship?

Recently, I was having lunch with a friend when the conversation pivoted to relationships. “I just know I’m not ready for a relationship,” she declared. My friend spoke with such certainty and...

Dating

How does healing look like after a break-up?

Have you ever wondered how long it would take to heal from a break-up? I struggled to even imagine ending a relationship, let alone a long-term one. But that was what happened when I ended my...

Dating

Friendzone: How to establish boundaries with grace

“I think we should just stay friends.” That day, I drew a clear line between us. There was no turning back the clock now — the friendzone was established. Ten months ago, we were total...

Dating

IG Live with Cliff Tam and Tam Wai Jia: Dealing with hurt and heartbreak

In Part 1 of our notes from our Instagram Live with Cliff and Wai Jia, we covered questions such as should girls make the first move, how do know when you’ve met “the one” and what...