Dating

Dating

Dating: Am I gonna be forever alone?

Reading this Thir.st article, I was struck by how much it resonated with my dating journey: the situation doesn’t look good and I’m often in low spirits. To keep things brief, I have been...

Dating

Should I date a guy who is less qualified than me?

Trending in Singapore, is an article with the headline “How would you respond if your graduate daughter dated a plumber?”. Another similar article earlier in 2022 stated more Singapore women were...

Singlehood

What does it mean to guard your heart?

I broach this topic with convictions, but also with fear. As I write this, I am brought back to a conversation I had just yesterday with my closest friends. It was a conversation that made me realise...

Marriage

The unlikely story of how I found my wife

About 10 years ago, I had an encounter with God. That encounter gave me a conviction that He had called me to missions, and that I should spend the next 10 years of my life preparing for the mission...

Singlehood

The girl (still) without the husband: A Valentine’s Day story

It took three events to make this story happen: new heartbreak, old heartbreak, and a meme. All within the span of a month. I don’t need to over-explain the first two, the former being a fresh...

Dating

Christian singles, meet the folks making your mingling easier

Dating can be difficult. As we grow older, it only becomes harder to meet other God-fearing believers who aren’t already attached. This lack of existing avenues for Christian singles to connect...

Dating

How can I be a godly woman during courtship?

Since my husband Cliff’s article addressing how to be a godly man in courtship started making its rounds on social media, I also began receiving dozens of questions over Instagram from young women...

Dating

How do I know if I’m ready for a relationship?

Recently, I was having lunch with a friend when the conversation pivoted to relationships. “I just know I’m not ready for a relationship,” she declared. My friend spoke with such certainty and...

Dating

How does healing look like after a break-up?

Have you ever wondered how long it would take to heal from a break-up? I struggled to even imagine ending a relationship, let alone a long-term one. But that was what happened when I ended my...