Life & Death

Post-secondary

Pregnant at 18, I had an abortion before my A-levels

I was from an all-girls school. And like any teenage girl undergoing puberty, I was desperate for love and attention from boys. There was a boysā€™ school just across the road from mine, and many...

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Death, where is your sting?

On 25 February 2012, I experienced loss for the first time in my life. My maternal grandfather, or gong gong (公公), passed away after battling with pneumonia. I still vividly remember a gripping...

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Sulli: Another star gone too soon

What seemed like a calming tide after Jonghyunā€™sĀ passing in December 2017 was broken on Monday with news of yet another K-pop idol dying by suicide. At 25 years old, Choi Jin-Ri, or more commonly...

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The time I attempted suicide

Pills and broken glass, tears and blood, fear and despair. It was one of the darkest nights of my life. I didnā€™t want to do it yet I couldnā€™t see how to face the next day. The pain of ending...

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It took me years to get here, but I finally want to live

To whoever is reading this: I don’t claim to be a person who knows exactly what you are going through, but from one messy, broken, redeemed person to another, this is a letter I wish someone...

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Living with my brotherā€™s suicide: Remembering Godā€™s goodness and mercy

I was finishing up my work day when my phone rang. The voice on the other end was distraught. ā€œYour brother is gone.ā€ For some reason, these words from my mum didnā€™t quite register. I would...

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LifeFest 2019: So that every child may have the chance to live

Arriving at St Andrewā€™s Cathedral, I was greeted by a large inflated arch with the words “LifeFest” printed across it. Ahead of me, a family of three walked under it hand-in-hand,...

Real Life, Real People

Remembering my baby brother, Elliot

ā€œWhat comes to mind when you hear the word ā€˜lifeā€™?ā€ This was the question Elliot Soh opened his final messageĀ with, a hard-hitting reflection on life, suffering and joy that went viral after...

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Will you be an Elliot?

You may not have heard of Elliot Soh during his too-brief life, but many of you will by now have read his final thoughts, penned just before he was called home to be with the Lord on September 28.Ā ...