Friendship

Can guys and girls be “just friends”?

I wouldn’t call myself a tomboy, but I’m admittedly a girl who has a lot of guy friends. Growing up, I found guys easier to talk to than girls. The habit stuck and close friendships with...

Dating

Longing to fill the emptiness of my life, I traded my body for money

People ask me why I am so crazy about a God I can’t see. I attended church since young and knew of a God who is holy. But I did not understand how people could serve and obey Him with such...

Family

“It feels better to be loving than to be right”: Redeeming the lost years with my father

Update (February 25, 2021): On the afternoon of February 23, 2021, See Ting went home to be with the Lord. Our hearts hurt and rejoice all at once because she is gone – but also free from the pain...

Relationships

When my wounds become gifts to others

We often wish to present the best sides of ourselves. Who enjoys showing others our wounds and scars?  After all, struggles in life are not trophies to be paraded. We prefer to keep our dark areas...

Relationships

Kallos Conference 2020: How can girls know their worth, date well and fight sexual sins?

On Day 2 of Kallos’ online conference, Real Talk on Love & Sexuality, on July 4, 2020, an all-female panellist shared their thoughts on why it’s important for girls to know their...

Faith

Walking through fire: We lost our baby at 27 weeks, but there is hope

“When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; And through the rivers, they shall not overflow you. When you walk through the fire, you shall not be burned, Nor shall the flame scorch...

Relationships

Not yet together: The trouble with everyday texting in our search for love

One Friday night in my mid-20s, I was on my way to meet my girlfriends for steak after work when I found tears welling up as I scrolled through my phone. “I think I am ready to join a...

Relationships

Rejected and alone, I was terrified of being single forever

Heart freshly broken by the man I loved after being informed that there was nothing in me that attracted him, I was utterly lost and crushed in spirit. I remember nights of sitting by my bed, all of...

Relationships

Kallos Conference 2020: What do guys think about dating, relationships and sex?

On Day 1 of Kallos’ online conference, Real Talk on Love & Sexuality, on July 3, 2020, an all-male panellist shared their thoughts on what makes a girl attractive, how they would define a...