Relationships

Seeing the heart

When I was a young boy, my father told me three words that have always stayed with me: See the heart. That didn’t mean a lot to me initially, but Dad helped me make sense of things. He...

Dating

Can a relationship be unequally yoked if we’re both Christians?

When finding a mate in church, I’m often told to look for someone within the church community. The basis given for such advice is the verse, “Do not be yoked together with...

Singlehood

Are you willing to wait for love?

Waiting has always been a dreadful process to me, a word I’ve hated since I was young. Whether it was going to the swimming pool or getting something I wanted, I always had to wait for it. I...

Church Life

How do I get past my disappointments and hurts from church?

My friend came to our breakfast meeting downcast. “I’m having a hard time,” she said. “How long does it take you to forgive someone?” I stirred my tea and thought about it: “It might...

Singlehood

I don’t want to be single forever

What’s your greatest fear? Cockroaches? Heights? Roller coasters? Those are pretty bad, but my greatest fear isn’t any of those things. I fear being single for life. No partner, no proposals,...

Dating

I couldn’t wait to kiss dating hello

I’ll be honest: Turning 21 and finding myself still single whilst watching more and more of my friends start dating was painful. In a culture that still finds it abnormal to remain single for a...

Relationships

How to fight well in a relationship

Before we got together as a couple, Cheryl and I had known each for almost a decade. In all those years as friends, we were amicable on the whole. And after a period of exclusive dating, when we got...

Family

Why should I honour my parents when they don’t deserve it?

This article is going to be quite a personal one because it concerns my family. I’m not sure how people will view my family and I after this post gets out, but I pray that God will use my...

Outreach

We found love at PraySingapore

If you were at PraySingapore over the weekend or read one of our stories, you would know that it was a powerful time of prayer and consecration in preparation for a year of revival. Corporate prayer...