How-tos & Handles

Struggling to get to grips with a particular issue in life? Peep the tips within — these practical guides are meant to help you to make sense and make moves.

How-tos & Handles

How do we share our views on same-sex attraction in a loving way?

Our intentions may be good, but they may not always come out in the best way. Sharing what it’s like to receive well-meaning advice from Christians, Dr Christopher Yuan recommends better ways to...

Dating

Is there the right one?

Growing up, I have hurt other people and I’ve also been hurt by others as well. Along the way I’ve declared so many people to have been “The One” for me… but is there really...

How-tos & Handles

How to find the right job: Start at the end

Many graduates and mid-career switchers want to find the right job, but it is an elusive goal (and COVID’s not making things easier). What is a good place to begin? Writer-turned-career coach Yong...

COVID-19

How to get rid of your unwanted “new normal” habits

As the world adjusts to a “new normal”, I’ve awakened to the realisation that COVID-19 has incubated a “new normal” of a different kind within me — one I’m not sure I should get used...

Discipleship

How do I help my cell group members when it comes to sexual purity?

“Lord, I’m so sorry… I messed up again. Help me stop.” This would be my almost nightly prayer for a number of years since the first time I began exploring my own sexuality out of curiosity. I...

How-tos & Handles

Help, I’m a blur sotong: How to job hunt like a boss

As a fresh graduate who has been job hunting for two months now, unemployment can feel intensely intimidating. It has been a uniquely challenging phase in life where I’ve had to focus on my...

Family

Learning to love our family, even when it’s difficult

During the circuit breaker, God challenged me to reflect on how I had been treating not only my sister, but also my parents. Being around our family members a lot more, it’s easy to annoy one...

Discipleship

Spending 30 days writing letters to God changed me

Before starting polytechnic, I was going through a season of isolation from Him. Worse still, I felt entirely responsible for drifting away. I knew I had to do something to go back to God, but I...

Dating

5 mistakes to avoid when you’re waiting for love

“I’ll just take anything I can get. I’ll date anyone who says he loves me.” As a youth, this was how Jennifer Heng used to approach relationships. Growing up in a broken family where...