Articles by

Wong Siqi

Studies & NS

Does my CAP define me?

I used to hate it when people said grades don’t define you. I certainly felt defined by my CAP (cumulative average point). It’s a grading system that decides whether you’ll...

Culture

Sex in the Church: An interview with Ben KC Lee, veteran speaker on sexuality issues

I first met Ben KC Lee at a conference where he was speaking as the head of Sexual Wholeness with Focus on the Family Singapore. Ben’s openness in sharing his struggles with sexuality was striking...

Faith

How to walk on water (and not sink)

“I wonder how tightly Peter held on to Jesus when he was sinking.” Those words stopped me in my tracks when my friend said them during cell group. I’ve read Matthew’s account of Jesus...

Relationships

Waiting for the lights to change: My unrequited love

I stretched my hands out. Droplets of fresh rain rolled off the edge of the building and danced on my fingertips at a slow, rhythmic beat. The road ahead glistened with puddles of water. “Looks...

Relationships

There is a prescribed way to love

Something concerning in the Church today is the attitude where one does whatever is right in his own eyes. Taking for granted God’s love, grace and long-suffering nature – believers pursue...

Faith

The secret is in the secret place

“For the Lord your God is a consuming fire, a jealous God” (Deuteronomy 4:24) As a young boy, my desire had always been wanting to live passionately and on fire for Jesus. The one big question I...

Work

Are your holidays restful or restless?

The school holidays are back! Nothing like a good, long break. Growing up, semester breaks were the one and only thing I looked forward to. And the best part? No need for alarms! I always looked...

Faith

Why isn’t God telling me His exact plan for my life?

2017 was a difficult year. I struggled greatly with not knowing what the future held for me. Drained and listless, I lived like this until a week came where I responded to an altar call and...

Relationships

Stop trivialising favouritism

Growing up as the middle child, I always felt that my parents favoured my brothers. I wasn’t as good as they were in both my studies and swimming, and I would feel pangs of jealousy whenever my...